Helps you say what matters most—before the moment passes.
This toolkit makes it easy to speak truth and encouragement over your children in the moments that matter most.

It All Starts Here: The
I Am Templates
This bundle includes both the boys’ and girls’ versions of the What Do You See in Me? template— plus 40 character trait cards and kid-friendly definitions for each
Cut them out, and sit down with your child to choose the ones that fit them best—whether it’s who they already are (kind, brave, helpful) or who they’re growing into.

Have more than one kiddo to encourgage? This bundle gives you everything you need!
Do you have girls and boys? No problem! We’ve bundled both the boys’ and girls’ versions and discounted them — so you can speak truth and build confidence in every child in your family.
Packed with trait cards, a keepsake template, reflection prompts, note cards, and coloring pages, it gives you a fun, stress-free way to build character and confidence — one genuine conversation at a time.
Because let's be real...the world will try to tear down. This helps us pour truth in first.
Helps you say what matters most—before the moment passes.
This toolkit makes it easy to speak truth and encouragement over your children in the moments that matter most.
Gives you simple tools to build each child's character.
With ready-to-use templates, trait cards, and reflection prompts for both the girls' and boys' versions, you’ll have everything you need to spark meaningful conversations—again and again.
Notice the good on purpose—in each child, in their own way.
It’s a gentle nudge to pause, see each of your kids clearly, and remind them of all the good you see inside.

I want the boys' version instead!
Looking for a simple and powerful way to encourage your son?
This version helps you speak right to his heart— with traits and prompts that help him feel strong, noticed, and deeply known.

I want the girls' version instead!
Looking for a sweet and meaningful way to encourage your daughter?
This version helps you speak directly to her heart—with traits and prompts designed to help her feel seen, valued, and deeply loved.

You know that look your child gets when you brag on them a little?
As you glue each trait onto the template, talk about what that word means and why you chose it for each of them. It’s such a simple activity, but the conversations that come out of it? So powerful.
In both versions, you'll get 3 note cards per character trait, plus a few extra!
These printable cards make everyday moments into opportunities to affirm what matters.
Simply pick a character trait, fill in the prompt with something specific you've noticed, and leave it somewhere for your child to discover.


I See You & You Matter!
When you use traits from their 'I Am' keepsake, you reinforce those qualities in a way that helps them truly believe what you see in them—or use the note cards to begin to develop qualities you're nurturing together.
Sticky notes are cute.
These are powerful.
Whether it’s patience at the doctor or perseverance with LEGOs, these cards help you celebrate the everyday wins your child will never forget.


40 Character-Based Coloring Sheets for Each Set
Each page is tied to a character trait—like honesty, kindness, or courage—and includes a simple question to help your child connect the dots.
Whether you have one child or five...
We designed this discounted bundle to give you everything you need to build up multiple children, one word, one moment, one printable at a time.

Celebrate What Makes Each of Them Unique
You already see the good in your kids.
What Do You See in Me? just helps you say it—clearly, intentionally, and in a way that really sticks, while building character.
Here's what you'll get in your bundle for BOTH
the girls' and the boys' versions!
What Do You See in Me? Templates for each
Make a visual reminder your child can see daily, showing them just how seen and loved they are.
Choose from 40 descriptive character trait cards with simple, kid-friendly definitions to spark conversations about who they are and what makes them special.
250 Printable Note Cards
Each card contains a character trait and a simple prompt to help you personalize what you see in your child.
Tuck them into lunchboxes, backpacks, under pillows, or tape them to a mirror as reminders that they are seen and loved.
80 Character-Themed Coloring Pages
These fun printable pages give your child a creative way to reflect on each character trait.
Every page includes a simple question to spark conversation as they color, making it easy to talk about who they are while doing something they love.

This is for you IF...
You want to be more intentional with your words—but life is loud, and it's easy to miss the little moments.
This helps you slow down just enough to say the things that matter to each child—and say them often.
You want your kids to feel truly seen—not just for what they do, but for who they’re becoming.
This gives you tools to start those meaningful conversations with each child, in a way that feels personal and natural.
You believe character is built through small, everyday moments and you want to be intentional.
This makes it simple to encourage traits like kindness, confidence, and honesty—one child, one word, one moment at a time.
Hey y'all!
We’re Gary and Kasey—parents of four, with two in college and two still in elementary school.
Over the years, we’ve learned how powerful it is when kids feel truly seen and encouraged, not just for what they do, but for who they’re becoming.
This toolkit was born out of a moment that stopped us in our tracks. One day, someone called our youngest “trash,” on the playground, and we realized that even though we thought we were calling out the good, we weren’t always being as specific or intentional as we could be.
That question—What do others see in me? is something every child quietly wonders.
We created this resource to help you answer that question with purpose—through simple words, everyday moments, and meaningful connection.

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Frequently Asked Questions
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Do I need to print all of the pages at once?
Not at all! We recommend starting with the keepsake template, trait cards, and adjective definitions. Then, you can print encouragement notes and coloring pages as you focus on each trait—just a little at a time, when it works for you.
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